What to Buy Your Girlfriend after a Fight

It’s never easy to come up with good ideas for gifts for your girlfriend or spouse at any time of the year. It’s even especially harder to figure out what to get her after you’ve had a major knockdown, drag out brawl for it all.  Maybe it’s just a speed bump you can repair, but maybe you are trying to get her back, which if that’s the case, you really need to think things through.

The odds are definitely in your favor that you did something really stupid and now you have to make up for it by buying her a gift!

If you find yourself in this situation, like you probably do more often than you’d like to admit, it’s time to take some time to really sit down and think about what it is you should actually get your girlfriend after you have a big fight.

Don’t worry if you have no idea where to begin, because we are going to help you discover some of the best things that you should get her if you have been fighting a lot as of late.

If you take a look at the things that we share with you today, you’ll come up with some great ideas for the perfect gift to help her feel loved, wanted, and no longer ready to rip your hair out!

Are you ready to learn the truth? After you look at this extensive list of things to consider, you’ll never have a tough time figuring out what to get your girlfriend after a fight again.

And more often than not, you’ll even realize that it might not be worth it to fight when you have to keep buying her expensive gifts just so she’ll forgive you!

Tips on What to Buy Your Girl After a Fight

  1. Your gift should let your girlfriend know that you really know who she is and that you’re paying attention to her.

More often than not, one of the biggest major complaints that girls have about their boyfriends is that they don’t pay attention to them enough.

If you happen to be one of these guys that is constantly screwing up and never paying attention to your girlfriend, one of the best ways to help her get over your argument is to get her something that really resonates with her. Get her something that shows that you really care and that you really pay attention to the things that she has to say.

As an example, if your girlfriend happens to love cats or dogs, or any other kind of pet, then you have the perfect opportunity to show her that you have been paying attention all along.

If she loves cats or dogs or different type of animal, you can get her a big pair of furry, fuzzy slippers with the image of her favorite animal on them.

She’s definitely going to love this thoughtful and generous gift! And before long, she’ll have no choice but to forgive you because she’ll be so happy about the gift that you gave her.

On the other hand, if your girlfriend happens to love a particular kind of movie – cheesy horror movies, romantic comedies, comedies, or anything else – you can go to your favorite website and pick her up a bunch of DVDs or Blu-ray discs of her favorite type of movie.

Guess what? She’s going to see that you have been paying attention. She’s going to realize that you really do care about her because you know so much about her.

If you follow this guideline and focus on getting her something that shows you’ve been paying attention, she’s going to see that you put forth the effort and that you really do care, and the occasional argument isn’t going to be such a big deal anymore once she knows you’re paying attention.

  1. Give her a gift that shows you put forth an effort.

It’s sometimes going to be difficult to make it obvious that you put forth an effort, but your gift should really make a huge impression on her if you are really trying to help her forgive you after a big fight.

Giving her typical wine and an apology card isn’t always going to be enough. Sometimes you have to go the extra mile in order to impress her and show her that you care.

Getting her jewelry is nice, but getting the first thing that you see is sometimes going to be counterproductive instead of helpful.

If you are going to get her jewelry, as an example, really pay attention to her taste, her style, and make the jewelry seem personal to her particular style and flavor.

As an example, think about her birthstone and think about getting her jewelry with her birthstone in it. This is a great way to show her that you really do care, that you are paying attention to her, and that you went out of your way to make sure you got her the perfect piece of jewelry to help get over this massive fight.

On the other hand, you could always do something extra special with all of the digital pictures that you have on your phone or her phone.

Go out of your way to buy a beautiful, attractive, girly photo album, find many of your favorite holiday pictures, vacation pictures, and pictures of the two of you and get them printed and put them into the photo album.

If you do something like this, she is going to be incredibly impressed with you, she is going to see that you put in a lot of effort to make this gift possible, and she’s going to be very happy with the overall result.

For all you know, this might be the exact perfect gift to remind her why the two of you have gotten along well together for so long.

And this will remind her of all of the good times that you’ve had together, and before long she’ll forget about the massive fight that you recently had that put you in the doghouse.

  1. Get Her a Gift That Fulfills Her Needs

To really get this one right, you’ll have to think a lot about your girlfriend and think about many of her favorite hobbies and things that she does as a regular part of her daily life.

As an example, let’s say your girlfriend has to travel a lot for work.

If this is the case, she might spend a lot of time flying. As we all know, the seats on airplanes are never really comfortable, and they are often really brutal on our neck.

So, get her a pillow for her neck so that she doesn’t have to experience as much discomfort while she’s flying.

This is a gift that fulfills a need and really shows her that you care.

It shows her that you’ve been thinking about her and that you want her airplane experiences to be as good as humanly possible and as comfortable as possible.

This type of gift that fulfills a need is a great way to really so her that you care.

Other things to consider are getting her a reflective jacket if she likes to run at night, getting her a new microwave or pressure cooker if she likes to cook, or anything else that you could think of that perfectly fits a need that your girlfriend has.

  1. Give Her a Gift That You Can Both Do Together

So many guys have a tendency to forget this, but their girlfriends really like to spend a lot of time with them! It’s the whole reason they’re in a relationship with you!

So, if you really want to help her get over your indiscretions if you’ve recently had a major brawl, then a great way to do so is to buy a gift that you can both do together.

As an example, let’s say your girlfriend really likes to go to the theater.

Now you might not like going to the theater at all, but a great way to show her that you want to spend time with her that you really care is the by theater tickets for the both of you.

Guys, it’s time to really step up your game. Take your girl to the theater and deal with it. And don’t spend the entire time complaining about how much you hate it. Just sit down, shut up, suck it up, and just be there for her.

How about getting a couple’s massage together? Does that sound like a good idea? Everybody can benefit from a nice massage.

Not only will this gift make her feel good, it will also make you feel good too.

So think about your girlfriend and think about certain things that you can do together. If your girlfriend loves to golf, maybe set up a golfing outing for the two of you. Or if your girlfriend loves to bowl, take her bowling one night.

You know her better than anyone else, so think about what she likes and buy her a gift that the two of you can definitely do together.


If you and your girlfriend recently had a fight, please use these gift suggestions to find the perfect gift to help her get over it sooner rather than later.

So what is my go-to gift for a woman?  It’s simple. An Amazon.com gift card.  It allows them to spend the money on whatever they want or desire.


Tom Savage is a serial dater living in Miami Beach, Florida. In between pool parties, late nights, and an occasional day trading session, he likes to share his tips on meeting women online. You can contact Tom on this page.

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