Things To Understand About Submissive Girls

When it comes to having sex, we know that submissive girls want certain things that most other girls don’t care for. Most of the time the girls that like this stuff don’t lie about things on their dating profiles. I’ll be the first person to say that I love submissive women that aren’t afraid to let guys take charge in the bedroom. I’d go as far to say that I would literally bang any submissive woman that asked for it. That’s how much I love hooking up with submissive females. Anyway, if you’re like me then you need to understand what these subs want if you truly want to experience the best sex of your life. Here are a few things that almost every girl that’s submissive enjoys in the bedroom.

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What You Must Understand About Having Sex With Submissive Girls

Here are a few simple things that I’ve learned over the years when it comes to taking control and have sex with women is as follows…

It’s Normal To Want It

The first thing you need to understand is that most people love having sex with submissive women. It’s because it’s so enjoyable and they are willing to do just about anything in the bedroom. While the aggressiveness and conflict sound harsh, it’s normal to want to treat a girl that way in bed. I’ve literally met girls online for a fling just because I was dominant and they were submissive. Wanting to play the submissive or dominant role is normal. The most important thing is that you pick one and go for it.

Understand The Levels

Some people think submissive girls are either all or nothing. That’s not the case most of the time. For example, on more than one occasion, I’ve had girls that were slightly submissive and only in a certain way or when it came to certain activities. That’s perfectly fine and you shouldn’t kick someone out of bed if they act this way. It’s normal for people to feel and act like that.

Talk It Out

If you’re fucking some hot girl you met for a sex date and you establish roles, rules and more before the meeting, then great, you can just go on and start fucking each other. As for the rest of you, I suggest that you speak with your casual sex partner and establish roles and actions from the get go. There’s nothing worse than being put in a position where negative sexual tension supersedes all else. Start with discussing the simple submissive activities that you like. Once you’ve done that, it’s then time to have some fun!

Submissive Women Love Dirty Talk

You should know that most submissive women love it when you talk dirty to them. They want to be treated in a naughty way that’s not too degrading. Sure, some of them like you to treat them like a total slut. It happens quite often and I love doing it myself, but not all girls are open to being talked down towards.

Direct Your Girl

If I’ve learned something about these submissive ladies it’s that they like to be told what to do. Sometimes you need to instruct them specifically. Don’t be afraid to do so forcefully either. My favorite thing to do is make a girl I’ve just met for the first time online get on her knees and stare up at me. Yes, it sounds a bit degrading but when they do that with their innocent eyes, it’s bound to get any submissive girl excited.

Bang Them Hard

Okay, almost every girl I’ve been with that’s been even the slightest bit submissive has wanted a hard pounding. I believe it’s because they like to feel as though they’re being controlled by the guy. Be sure to give any submissive hottie the pounding of a lifetime if you want her to fuck you again.

These simple tips should help improve your time with submissive girls that you can meet on various dating sites.


Tom Savage is a serial dater living in Miami Beach, Florida. In between pool parties, late nights, and an occasional day trading session, he likes to share his tips on meeting women online. You can contact Tom on this page.

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