So you powered past the first date, and now she’s into having you over for sex. That’s what’s up!
Now, the time is ripe to make her feel good about seeing you, and feeling good when she sees you. We’re talking about making her cum.
The main goal for any guy, when having sex, should be to make the girl cum. Not just because it’s only fair to her, but also because it increases the pleasure for you as well. Most guys can cum easily during sex. All they need is friction. It’s a bit more complicated with a girl, but still easily achievable. A girl who is with a man that makes her cum is going to try harder to please him both in and out of the bedroom. She is also going to stick around to have sex again and you aren’t going to have to chase her for it. All those guys out there who say that their girls don’t want to have sex as much as they do are probably not giving them orgasms.
The Importance of Making Her Cum Best During Foreplay
Let’s not get ahead of ourselves. You are going to make her cum during vaginal sex and you will feel the joy of her vagina squeezing your penis as she has an intense and vocal orgasm, but the easiest and most effective way of doing that is to give her an orgasm before your penis ever enters her. This not only doubles her pleasure, it makes it easier for her to achieve an orgasm during penile penetration. Once she has risen up her arousal scale and had an orgasm, it becomes easier for her arousal to peak again. Girls remain in an elevated state of arousal for a few minutes after each orgasm, so all you have to do is keep going. Once you give her a second orgasm, the third one is even easier to achieve.
Use your fingers and tongue to give her either a clitoral orgasm or a G-spot orgasm. A clitoral orgasm is easier and happens faster, but it’s not as deep and intense as a G-spot orgasm. Both types will get her ready to cum during penile penetration, so take your pick. A clitoral orgasm can be achieved by stimulating the clitoris with your tongue. To increase her pleasure and make her cum faster; do some light fingering. Repetition and friction is key, so make sure not to change speeds or location when she starts becoming more aroused or she will drop back down her arousal scale and you’ll have to build it back up again. The G-spot orgasm is the type of orgasm you want to give her during penetration, but you can do it with your hands if you’re feeling brave and want to give her the most intense and satisfying pleasure possible. Start with clitoral stimulation and slide your finger in once she becomes wet. Insert your fingers palm up and locate the G-spot deeper inside, just above her clitoris, next to her pelvic bone. Move your finger in a come hither motion over her G-spot increasing speed and pressure until she explodes and her eyes roll back in her head.
Giving her an orgasm during intercourse
Now that she’s writhing on the bed cumming, mount her and insert your penis. Remember where her G-spot was? Apply that same concept, but this time with your penis instead of your finger. Penetrate her deep and thrust in a forward and slightly upward motion so your penis is bumping against the G-spot. She will begin moving back up her arousal scale quickly. You don’t even have to thrust that hard or fast if you feel that you are coming close to orgasm. Just stay on course with your penis bumping the G-spot and prepare for a wild ride.
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