Ways to Ask a Girl Out

Asking out a girl is one Herculean task, specially if you are a shy person, by nature. It can either come naturally to you or you may stutter throughout! As much as it depends on you and how you do it, it also depends on the girl you are asking.

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Hey baby, let’s date.

Remember every guy can ask a girl out on a date and it solely depends on how he does it. So take a deep breath, relax and do the best you can! Here are a few ways you can ask a girl out and get a yes!

How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

Be Confident

One of the basics of asking a girl out is to scream confidence, literally! From your posture to your body language, confidence should be oozing out. Keep your chin up, chest high, shoulders down and back and your gaze forward. The more confident you look, the greater the chances are that you’ll get a yes! Be confident in your space and let her know through your body language that this is what you want!

Look Polished

This goes without saying, really! Nobody wants to date a sloppy dresser. The way you dress reflects your personality. This does not mean that you have to wear a tuxedo to ask a girl out. Dress up the way you normally do, however make sure that your clothes are not creased and shoes are not scruffy. Also make sure, you spray a nice cologne, too, as nothing puts off a girl more than a bad smelling man!

Simplicity Works

This rule works to the core. Back-bending to ‘wow’ a girl does not really work, until and unless it is a movie. Keep it simple and forget about impressing the girl.

Remember if you are confident in your skin, chances are that things will work out for you. Don’t let her know that you are trying too hard. So muster up your confidence, put up a smile and say hello. Be observant and find something to give her a compliment for, like her smile or her jewelry!

Do Not Over-Plan!

Asking a girl out, specially the one that you have been swooning after for ages, can be a momentous occasion for you and definitely you would want it to be perfect. A word of caution here: do not over-plan! More than often, the best plans do not work. So go with the flow and let the conversation head along naturally.

Pop The Question with Ease!

So it is time to ask the question! You are nervous like anything and want to get it over with as quickly as possible. Make it easy on yourself and walk up to the girl with confidence. Let her know that you are interested in taking her out and ask her for her number so that you can call her. And that’s it! You have done it!

Of course, if all else fails, join one of these sites or just do the old meet and fuck thing.

Asking Out a Girl Can be a Daunting Task, but with Confidence, You Can Beat the Odds!



Tom Savage is a serial dater living in Miami Beach, Florida. In between pool parties, late nights, and an occasional day trading session, he likes to share his tips on meeting women online. You can contact Tom on this page.

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