Meet and Fuck Site Etiquette

There are all sorts of websites out there that you can use to get meet people for various reasons.  Today I’m going to share with you my views on how to properly behave when you meet a woman from a meet and fuck website.

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How to Behave When Meeting Women From Hook Up Sites

It’s a different mentality when you meet a woman on a site that you know she signed up for just to find a casual hook up.  It’s a lot different than meeting someone on say, a Christian Dating website or a type website.  These sites are intended for people who simply have the desire to get off, and they wan to find a partner who can help accomplish this need.

#1:  Assume the Check

I know this isn’t a formal “date,” but let’s face it, women want to be wooed, or at least faked out to the point that you are coming from a position of being somewhat of a nice guy.  Don’t meet up and have a coffee, dinner, or drinks and assume that just because there is no long term goal of marrying one another that you should simply go Dutch the entire time.  Have the decency to treat it like you are going to be a good guy, even if that isn’t going to be the case once you both do the dirty.

#2:  Be Ready

You joined a fling website to have a fling.  Don’t fall in love or get all sappy with a “I was hoping for a kiss goodnight” attitude because that could scare away your date.  This isn’t a time to fall in love, unless you both just naturally go that route for whatever reason.  If she met you under the premise there was going to be sex without all sorts of boundaries, than you need to be ready to take care of business once you get somewhere you can be intimate.

#3:  Respect Her Time

Again, you met for a reason, so keep it under those boundaries.  Don’t try to make an entire day our of something that shouldn’t be more than a few hours or a sultry evening, if you get that lucky.  She met you to do the damn thing, so keep things short and sweet.

Those are three tips you can use to up your game a bit on these meet and hook up type sites.  You can find more tips from me every day this week as this is a series of advice you can take to the bank.



Tom Savage is a serial dater living in Miami Beach, Florida. In between pool parties, late nights, and an occasional day trading session, he likes to share his tips on meeting women online. You can contact Tom on this page.

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