Things Women Want When It Comes To Sex

Let’s face it, women can be very tough to please. They can be more demanding than a pain in the ass boss that you slave over 12 hours a day. When it comes to sex, women know what they want and on so many occasions they simply don’t tell you what it is that they really want. Ladies either have too much pride to open up their mouths and just tell it like it is or they just expect us guys to know what they want and that’s it. Regardless of what the circumstances might be, you need to understand what women want when it comes to things in the bedroom.

Of course, there are certain circumstances where some girls may want something different when it comes to sex but more often than not, these things hold true. Here’s a rundown of the things that they want. I’ve kept this pretty cut and dry so almost any guy is able to understand it.

Things Women Want When It Comes To Sex

A Few Things That Women Must-Have When It Comes To Having Sex

These things apply to most scenarios but not all. I’m not a genius, so don’t take any of this as it’s coming from Albert Einstein. I just know what girls want because I fuck so many of them. Want a girl to like you more? Then you better read this entire article! Here goes nothing…

Take Your Time

Listen up buddy, girls do not want you to storm through a fuck session in a matter of minutes. Sure, a quickie on occasion is awesome, but for the most part, you want to take your time in the bedroom. Girls get really turned on when a guy mixes in some passion versus just pounding. For example, when you’re eating her pussy, don’t do it like it’s a race. Like slowly so that she doesn’t think you’re tongue is having seizures.

Talk To Her

Most women love dirty talk in the bedroom. It makes them feel really naughty and even the girls that are shy about it. They’ll keep things quite until you start talking dirty to them but make sure you do just that! I don’t suggest going too hardcore at first. For example, don’t just come out and tell some girl you’re hooking up with online that she’s a filthy slut. Sure, some girls may like that but it could also ruin your chances in the bedroom. Start slow and ease into the talk. Whatever you do, don’t be too quite here.

Touch and Grab

Women want you to touch them in places that most men don’t. Too often, men neglect vital parts of the body and only pay attention to tits and ass. There’re so many more cubic inches on a girls body that needs loving. Don’t be afraid to touch her neck, arms, legs, thighs, hands and more.

Get Rough And Kinky

Some girls that use adult dating websites specifically state on their profiles that they like rough and kinky sex. If they do and you’re not doing either of those things for them, you can bet that they aren’t doing you again. Don’t be afraid to lick her thighs, spank her ass and even tie a girl up (lightly). She might like it and you even more which will make her cum quicker than usual.

Help Undress Her

Women love a guy that helps undress them. For some reason, they think it’s a huge turn on. You’ve got to do it very slowly though if you want the full effect. Tearing clothes off a horny college girl can be fun at times but most want you to take things slow.

Multiple Positions

If you’re planning on just banging a girl in one basic position, then she’s going to think you’re basic AF! Trust me when I tell you that women want to fuck guys that change positions multiple times while having sex. Do not be afraid to try doggy style or even some crazy unusual sex position. Just don’t get hurt doing any of it.

Go Down On Her

I kinda already covered this but it’s too important to not cover again. You’ve gotta like pussy and do it well if you want to have great sex with a girl. Most women love having guys go down on them. It’s something that they just can’t seem to give up, even if they tried. In fact, some women like oral sex better than taking the D, so don’t sleep on this one!

Well, that’s all I got for you today. Those are all things that women love when it comes to sex and I’m pretty certain that it makes a difference in your overall sex life if you know and follow them!


Tom Savage is a serial dater living in Miami Beach, Florida. In between pool parties, late nights, and an occasional day trading session, he likes to share his tips on meeting women online. You can contact Tom on this page.

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